When ever my baby starts to cry, it is usually because of her sister. And I invariably end up scolding her or beating her. My daughter also cries and gives some excuses. My baby has also been growing up and she has watched this scene everyday. It happened one day, that again when she started to cry, I scolded my first daughter. But I didnt know that my baby has grown smarter. It was in fact she, who had done the mistake, but just to escape had cried. This has been happening a couple of times.
One day my first daughter, asked a slapping question " Ma, Will Akshu never become bigger than me. Will she ever get scoldings or beatings for the mistakes she does, or will I only get scoldings always?"
I realized, how bad I have been in my judgement. How much I have wounded the young heart. How much I have been ignorant. How much I have made my bigger daughter suffer. After all she is not so old, just 3 years older than her sister. Afterall I am also in the learning phase of raising kids.
One day my first daughter, asked a slapping question " Ma, Will Akshu never become bigger than me. Will she ever get scoldings or beatings for the mistakes she does, or will I only get scoldings always?"
I realized, how bad I have been in my judgement. How much I have wounded the young heart. How much I have been ignorant. How much I have made my bigger daughter suffer. After all she is not so old, just 3 years older than her sister. Afterall I am also in the learning phase of raising kids.
