Wednesday, May 15, 2019

God Sent Opportunity to help in setting up a Library


I have always been a voracious reader and interested in books. Books have been a key companion to me all through my life.

I have a collection of books about which I am really proud. I always thought how about these books also benefit others rather than only me and my children.

So I tried to setup a library where I work, so my colleagues and friends could utilize them. But this project didn't take off. Probably many reasons. They were all IT professionals and no longer wanted to go through physical books. They were not inclined to books. What ever may be the reason, that project didn't take off. So I was also thinking of ways to reach these books to wider audience.

That is when I got this God sent opportunity to set up a library in some remote village, where people  are really and genuinely interested to read and  dont have availability of quality books to read. So this is really a blessing from God, because now I can give my most treasured possession to people who really deserve and are willing to utilize and appreciate it and hopefully preserve it and may be pass it on to future generation. Knowledge and books are for that to get passed on generation after generation. They are the greatest treasures you can give anybody. ( At least thats what I think).  I am thankful to my Manager for being the God's Messenger to reach out to me and provide me this opportunity. He is a wonderful person and has been serving the society in million ways and he was kind enough to involve me in one of them.

So the upcoming Library in a remote village is named "SriRam Pusthakalaya". I have sent the first consignment containing the first set of books for the library. Just capturing the books details below, so dont lose track of my beloved books.

Will keep tracking this progress and also post about how the books were received by people there and whether they were utilized for reading etc.

S.No Book Title Author Category Category
1 Unix Shell Programming Yashwanth Kanethkar Education Computer Science
2 Basic Electrical Engineering FitzGerald
Higginbotham Grable
Education Engineering
3 Business Statistics S.P Guptha
M.P.Guptha
Education Statistics
4 Principles of Complier Design Alfred V.Aho
Jeffrey D.Ulman
Education Computer Science
5 Mechanical Measurements Thomas G Beckwith
N.Levis Buck
Education Engineering
6 A Textbook of Electrical Technology B.L Theraja
A.K Thereja
Education Engineering
7 RDBMS Concepts Aptech Education Computer Science
8 Digital Electronics William H. Gothmann Education Engineering
9 An Introduction to Database systems C.J.Date Education Computer Science
10 Principles of Complier Design ( Book2) Alfred V.Aho
Jeffrey D.Ulman
Education Computer Science
11 Theory of Computer Science E.V.Krishanamurthy Education Computer Science
12 Unix Network Programming - Volume 1 W. Richard Stevens Education Computer Science
13 Unix Network Programming - Volume 2 W. Richard Stevens Education Computer Science
14 Junit in Action Vincent Massel
Ted Husted
Education Computer Science
15 Network System Design using Network Processor Douglas E. Comer Education Computer Science
16 Tornado(VxWorkz) Training Workshop- Volume 1 Mistral Education Computer Science
17 Tornado(VxWorkz) Training Workshop- Volume 2 Mistral Education Computer Science
18 Building Java Enterprise Systems with J2EE Paul J. Perrone
Venkata S.R
Krishna R Chaganti
Education Computer Science
19 Organization Behaviour and Organization Culture Prof Ananth R. Sapre Education Business Management
20 Principles and Practices of Management Prof Vivek Sawhney Education Business Management
21 Business Communication and Executive Effectiveness Dr. Rajan Sri Kande Education Business Management
22 Java Complete Reference Patrick Naughton
Herbert Schildt
Education Computer Science
23 Explaining Unix System Stephen G Kochen
Patrick H.Wood
Education Computer Science
24 Software Architecture in Practice Len Beas
Paul Clement
Rick Caseman
Education Computer Science
25 HTML Begineers Guide Wendy Willard Education Computer Science
26 Pointers in C Yashwanth Kanethkar Education Computer Science
27 Education New Dimension Ramakrishna Mutt Spiritual Spiritual
28 Diary of Wimpy Kid Jeffy Benney Story Book Kids Book
29 Harry Potter and Goblet of Fire Story Book Kids Book
30 Simple Abundance Ramakrishna Mutt Spiritual Spiritual
31 Question Book of Knowledge Story Book Kids Book
32 World Tour Mystry Story Book Kids Book
33 Java 2 SCJP Study Guide Katty Sierra Education Computer Science
34 Java 2 SCJP Guide Bill Brogden Education Computer Science
35 Engineering Mathamatics Prof Dr. D.Sundaram.
R.Balasubramaniam
Education Engineering
36 Research Methodology R. Ravilochanan Education Business Management
37 The J2ME Complete Reference James Keogh Education Computer Science

Saturday, March 9, 2019

ஒரு வாகனத்தில் ஏன் பிரேக் தேவை? அதாவது நிறுத்த கட்டுப்பட்டு கருவி ஏன் தேவை? வாகனத்தை நிறுத்துவதற்கு என்றா நினைக்கிறீர் ? உண்மையில் உங்களால் வாகனத்தை பயமின்றி ஓட்டமுடிகிறது மற்றும் விரைவிவிரைவாகவும் ஓட்டிச்சென்று விரும்பிய எல்லையை அடையமுடிகிறது என்றால் அதற்க்கு காரணம் எது? அந்த வண்டியை ஒட்ட கூடிய தைரியத்தை தந்தது எது ? அந்த வண்டியில் பிரேக் இருக்கும் தைரியமும் எந்த நேரம் தேவைப்பட்டாலும் வாகனத்தின் வேகத்தை கூடவோ நிறுத்தவோ முடியும் என்ற நம்பிக்கை தானே? எத்தகைய  கட்டுப்பாட்டு கருவிகள் இல்லை என்றால் நம் பயணத்தை நினைத்து பாருங்கள் . அது துவங்கிய இருக்காது.

ஆம். நம் வாழ்க்கையில் பயணம் மற்றும் நம் வல்வைசார்ந்த அணைத்து அம்சங்களும் சிறப்பாக இருக்கிறது என்றால் அதற்கு முக்கிய காரணம் நாம் வரையறுத்து வைத்துள்ள கட்டுப்பாடுகளும் க்கோட்பாடுகளும் என்றால் அது மிகையல்ல. இவை நாம் அதிவேகம் எடுத்து வாழ்கை பயணத்தில் தடம் புரண்டு விடாமல் காப்பாத்துகின்றன. இத்தகைய கட்டுப்பாடுகளை ஒவ்வுறு மனிதனும், குடும்பமும் , மாநிலமும் நாடும் பின்பற்றினால் ஒரு அழகான மகிழ்ச்சியான உலகை நம்மால் உருவாக்க முடியும்.

முதலில் சுய மனித பழக்க வழக்கங்களை பார்ப்போம் . வாழ்க்கையின் ஆதாரம் உணவு.அதில் ஏன் கட்டுப்பாடு? தினமும் கட்டு கட்டலாம் எங்கீறீர்களா? சிந்தியுங்கள்.

அமெரிக்கா பெடரல் சுகாதாரத்தூரை ஆராய்ச்சி நிறுவனம் நடத்திய ஆய்வின் படி 86% நாள்பட்ட தீராத நோயாளிகள் உள்ளனர். அந்த நோயிலிருந்து விடுபட அல்லது நோயை குணப்படுத்த செலவிடும் பணத்தை குறைக்க ஒரு எளிய தீர்வு உள்ளது. அது உணவு கட்டுப்பாடு . நம்மை ஆரோக்ஹ்யமாக வைத்துக்கொள்ள ஒரு தடுப்பு மருந்து -உணவு . நல்ல ஆரோக்ஹ்யமான , சீரான அளவான உணவு நம்மை பேராபதிலிருந்து காப்பாற்றுகிறது .

ஆடை . இதில் கட்டுப்பாடு தேவையா? பள்ளிகளில் அவசியம் என்று கருதப்படுகிறது .எனவே  சீருடைகள் . நிறுவனங்களில் அவசியம் என்று கருதப்படுகிறது. ஆடை குறியீயீடுகள் ஆயுதப்படைகளில் அவசியம் என்று கருதப்படுகிறது. முக்கிய நிகழ்வுகளிலும் , திருமணங்களிலும் , மத சடங்குகளிலும் அவசியம் என்று கருதப்படுகிறது. அசாதாரண உடை அலங்காரம் அந்த நிகழ்ச்சியின் உண்மையான கவனத்திலிருந்து திசை திருப்புகிறது. பள்ளிகளில் குழந்தைகள் படிப்பில் கவனம் செலுத்த வேண்டும். திருமணம் என்பது ஒரு உன்னதமான புனிதமான நிகழ்வு. அதில் நம் உடை அலங்காரம் மரியாதை செலுத்தும் விதத்தில் இருக்க வேண்டும். பள்ளியில் கட்டுப்பாடு இல்லாமல் உடை அணியலாம் என்று சொன்னால் எத்தனை பெரு தினமும் விதவிதமான உடை மற்றும் சிகை அலங்காரம் செய்வதில் எவ்வளவு ஆர்வம் காட்டுவர் . நினைத்தாலே தலை சுற்றுகிறது.

சரி இதையெல்லாம் விடுங்கள். சுய மனித பழக்கவழக்கங்களில் கட்டுப்பாடு வேண்டாமா. கட்டுப்பாடு இல்லா பழக்கவழக்கங்கள் நம் வாழ்வை வீழ்த்ததா? மது மாது சிகரெட்டு போன்ற தீய பழக்கங்கள் எத்தனை பேரின் வாழ்க்கையை குலைத்திருக்கிறது.

சோம்பேறித்தனம், பொய் பேராசை பெருங்கோவம் போன்ற குணங்கள் யாவும் கட்டுப்படை கடக்கும் போது வாழ்க்கையை கெடுக்கும் பேரிடராக மாறுகிறது . இதிலிருந்து மீள நம்மக்கு தேவை சுயகட்டுப்பாடு 


Friday, March 8, 2019

Gadgets



Essay written for my younger daughter speech in 7th Std.

The alarm rings and I snooze the alarm in mobile phone. It rings again. I get up and check the whatsapp messages, facebook feeds and then start to get ready for school. Hot water from Geyser, then bread sandwiches from bread toaster, hot milk from microwave oven. Off to school in father's car. Enter Class room and teacher teaches in smart board and smart pad. Back home in evening chatting with friends, live streaming in PC, play games in mobile. Dinner. Set alarm in mobile phone check whatsapp, facebook and then retire to bed for the day. 

Sounds similar to your life style as well. YES. This is what 90% children do today.

Additionally purchases through online apps, travel through online apps, food order through online apps,home work exchange through whatsapp, payments through online apps, list goes on and on. So convenient right. YES 100%. It these gadgets where not there our life would have been totally different. YES DIFFERENT. Please note what I said. I said different and did not say bad/worse etc. Without gadgets life can exist and not really bad life as you may think.

Progression, better time management, more convenience, doing everything right from home, speed of transactions are all boons of technology and gadgets. There is no second opinion on this. It is impossible to think of today's society with out mobile phones and laptops.

These gadgets have indeed helped us in every sphere of progress be it medical, finance, healthcare, consumer service, education, entertainment. All over.

Then what is the problem? Let me tell you. I chat with friends in whatsapp, no eye contact, no personal presence, everything virtual. 100s of friends in whatspp and facebook. But non visits home when I am sick at home. Order everything online, no need to even shake your body. Zero exercise and welcome all diseases of the world. Always on phone call, become more friendly with radiation.
Constantly keep seeing different screens and screen your eyes with spectacles. Purchase new phones in every six months and dispose of old phones, accumulate non-biodegradable waste. Contribute to green-hours effect and increase the earth temperature which leads to melting of ice and flooding of land. So now do you get the Big picture. Every act you do through gadgets has butterfly effect somewhere else and usually this effect is also not for good. These are lead to destruction of earth and human kind.

So what is the solution? As the famous Tamil Quote goes - 
                         "Alavukku minginal, Amruthamum Visham."

Use Electronic gadgets optimally wherever and when ever required. Avoid accumulating and indulging in gadgets forever. For activities that can be done without gadgets, do them without gadgets.  

SAVE YOURSELF and SAVE THE WORLD.

Handwriting Contest - Write India - My Mom's short Para


Handwriting Contest - Write India

Hand written essay by me Mom. Date: Some where in Oct 2017

I dont remember when I have written my last handwritten letter. Yes Now I remember vaguely. It was an official correspondence 20 years back. Now due to technological improvements and social media apps like facebook and whatsapp, the need for writing letters is very minimal.

Even though it may be out of context, I would like to mention that the best government owned postal department is in very depleted condition now. Since the usage of its services has come down drastically the world's best postal services of which is India is in distress condition. The Government is trying to improve the condition by offering many services through the portal department. The enormous growth of courier services is also playing a part to stop growth of post offices. We the people to should realize and give helping hand to postal services.

Not only for improvement of postal department, even for our own benefit we should encourage writing.It is an art by itself and also improves creativity and hand-eye coordination. Now through this contest I have been provided an opportunity to write after so many years to test my handwriting and writing ability. I am thrilled and excited. Letters can be saved as treasures and I am going to save this one for my daughter and grand daughters. I am reminded of the days when I used to work in Bank and write lots and lots of letters and also everyone used to appreciate my neat work and handwriting. Writing was monotonous then and now I am really liking to write this short essay after so many years and enjoying it. Thank you.

THE NEW THINGS I WOULD LEARN FROM MY GRANDCHILDREN WHEN I AM 64

Essay written by my daughter for some contest. 8th Grade.

I wake up hearing the buzzing sound of my alarm in my Lenovo Tab, turn on the mobile data and check the number of likes for my trendy picture in Facebook, change my status in Whatsapp and ask my friends how they are, give comments and likes in twitter. Then I get up from my bed and brush my teeth with an automatic toothbrush and watch some special programs in my digital T.V. Eat bread and chocolate sauce. I ask my mom to buy goods online if she asks me to go and buy the grocery from the nearby store. I book movie tickets in my laptop and sit under air conditioner for hours. I hear trendy songs and watch viral videos in YouTube. Speak with my relatives and friends who are in foreign countries through Roam and Skype. I study for my exams with the help of books available in Play Books. This is how I travel through life. But my grandparents are people who practice the old style of like walking to each and every places for their daily needs and the also are not interested in the modern way of life.

New technological advancements are constantly happening around us. Life will be boring without a CHANGE in everything. Technology has developed and raised the standard of living for everybody. The only thing that doesn’t change and remain constant in this world is CHANGE.

If the changes do not happen, as a 12 year old girl, I wouldn’t be enjoying the new technological luxurious life that I am enjoying now. No soft beds in my house, miles to walk down the south, no A.C.s to fight the hot sun, no cell phones for communication only pigeons. I cannot imagine such a boring life. I sometimes wonder how my grandparents lived in such a primitive world.

When I discussed about this with them they told that they were happy at that time than now in this fast-running world. They said that it is now tough for them to cope-up in this world. There was no complexity in life then. As technology started to grow and reach the peak, people belonging to the older period feel left out. They are unable to cope us with the technological advancements and thus unable to progress along with others. Thus the elderly people find it difficult to get accustomed to the new phase of world. They also get frustrated in learning the technology and thus the life becomes tough for them in this advanced world.

Nowadays it is not so weird in not having a bank account rather than a Facebook account. All the memorable quitters are also in twitter. No one is bothered in getting rice, wheat or gram, everyone wants to join Instagram.

All these has forced elderly people to learn the newest technology. Wherever it may be from buying a pair of shoes to a large palace, everyone has the necessity to give their phone number, e-mail ID, etc. This has made my grandparents come behind me for everything from switching on their smart phones to doing all wonders in the INTERNET. Daily I need to teach them how to use Whatsapp, how to check the mobile balance, how to use an automatic toothbrush, how to set up an e-mail account, etc. My grandparents think that wisdom doesn’t come through age, it comes through the new technological advancement. They are open-minded to learn every new thing they see around this beautiful world.

52 years later, when I am 64 years I think I would learn a number of new inventions from my grandchildren. They would just be like a mirror and reflect the same thing I do to my grandparents. Scientists tell that a few decades later the air would be filled with the machinery sound of ROBOTS, roads would be filled with DRIVER-LESS VEHICLES, MIND-READING HOTEL SERVERS, etc. What is the worth of $500,000,000 if we doesn’t even know how to make use of robots around us? We must know how to call, sit and tell your destination to a driver-less car. When I am in that situation I would feel like a small ant in a huge world.  There would be machines to bath me, wake me, even machines to dress me up, prepare my meals and give remedies for my psychological problems.

Now I wonder how I am going to learn all these things and the most difficult task of learning the codes and languages of these machines. I would be totally dependent on my grandchildren who would guide me as a teacher in all circumstances. I understand the struggle of my grandparents now very much.

My grandchildren can be the people like me who are affectionate and help their grandparents, or can be those who are not interested in teaching me. I must be mentally and physically ready to face that phase of the world in future, whatever be the environment. Those days of my life would become hectic and difficult if I don’t have an open mind to learn.

 I must be open-minded and ego-less like my grandparents to learn and grasp the new things around me. Knowledge or wisdom must be iron pins which would be attracted by every magnet called as humans in any point of time. I would also experience the true happiness of life through my grandchildren. I would learn the innocence in their smile, and learn the honesty from their talk, learn what hard work is when they study for their mechanical exams and I would reach the true destination learning every bits and pieces which I didn’t enjoy when I was young due to its unavailability.

I would also teach them the important keys to open the door of happiness and success which I would have learnt from my journey through life. Not only when I am 64 would I learn from my grandchildren, all through life I would be open-minded like my super grandparents and grasp everything around me with interest in the new TECHNOLOGICAL WORLD!!!!!!!!!  

HISTORICAL CONNECTION BETWEEN INDIA AND KOREA.

Essay written for Korea Contest by my Daughter

Tasty Korean noodles, beautiful city of Seoul, UN Secretary General Ban Ki-moon, Gagnam style dance, dad’s Samsung smartphone, mom’s LG washing machine, and our Hyundai car strike me when I hear Korea. Korea is twined with my life!!! I Googled further and came across facts about establishment of Kim dynasty by an Indian Princess from Ayodhya, spreading of Buddhism by monks who travelled from India. I further found many more facts to prove pre-historic relations between countries:-


  •    Korean language has so many words present in Tamil. Ex: AMMA, APPA.
  •   The Hangeul alphabetical system has no clear demarcation between “Cha” - “Jha”, “Pa”- “Bha”, “Ga” - “Ka” similar to Tamil.
  •   The traditional dance of Korea Grand Drum resembles Tamilnadu dance–Thappattam.
  •   Mountain gods San-Sin and Muruga are worshipped in Korea and Tamilnadu respectively.
  •   Tamilnadu Pandiya dynasty coins minted with two beautiful fishes resembles Korean coins.
  •   Transformations between animals and humans is common in both country’s religions. Ex: Jambavathi, bear women.
  •   Both countries have bright yellow summer fruits (pear and mango) as national fruits and tigers as national animal.
  •   Both follow lunar calendar and align traditional activities to it.
  •   Women have large ear lobes due to wearing of heavy rings and practice of lifting heavy stone to test strength of men prevail in both countries.
  •   Arranged marriages are common and parents seek the words of fortune teller. People do not marry with same family name, similar to Gothra in India.
  •   Korean’s staple food is steamed rice along with number of colorful side dishes (vegetables and meat) similar to Indians.
  •   Korean women tie their hair in a braid till marriage and put a knot similar to Indian women after marriage.
  •   Family structure in both countries is similar. Elders are respected. Elder son takes leadership role.
  •   Both Koreans and Indians are hard-working, workaholic, caring, sharing, creative, imaginative and talented.
We students of India and Korea would strengthen our relationship and work together for a better tomorrow.

Monday, February 4, 2019

My Small Motivation speech to KV Students at my KV School in Ooty at our Batch 25 year Reunion - Namma Reunion


Good Morning Respected Principal, Respected Teachers, My dear Classmates and my dear young friends. A very happy morning to you all. I am so thrilled and so happy to be standing here in front of you in this Dias. The same very Dias where I have stood innumerable times as a student. Now when I stand here as an alumni of this great school it is totally an altogether different experience and it is so beautiful. I am really really thankful to this beautiful and serene place Ooty, this KV school, its teachers, this huge HPF factory, its quarters, my dear friends standing here and those who couldn’t come who have given company to me all my initial years and I owe a lot to all these people and place for whatever I am today.

Now the thought about Ooty and the KV School brings a positive vibe and a smile in our face to most of us standing here. Such is the power of positive thought. Yes Thought is a force that has the power to define your character, change destiny, can make our life an all-round success.

Lord Buddha says that We are shaped by our thoughts. We become what we think.

Thought control, Thought Power and Thought Leadership are powerful science and a vast subject by themselves. Let us simplify and understand this science.

Influential thoughts transformed societies and gained momentum as people movement. We have so many examples of this category - Gandhiji and his thought Ahimsa as a tool to get independence. Nelson Mandela’s thought against Apartheid. Lenin’s thought of Socialism in the struggle between haves and have nots. What do you think is the commonality between the thoughts of such great people leaders? These were thoughts were for peace, non-discrimination is society, equal opportunity to all human beings. Since these were positive and were for the common good for people, it influenced the larger society and united the people to come together for common cause. 

Steve Jobs and Bill Gates were thought leaders who believed that human lives could be transformed through technology. Successful companies of today all have a vision and mission statement that defines the thought process of the company. Company that works for profit may not be as successful as a company that works for a cause and has a powerful transformational thought as a driving force.
Now What is in it for me? I can see many of you wondering what I am talking about. Let us come down to the level of my young friends – the school children.

Positive thoughts and Good Thoughts can mould us into better person. Success can be achieved by good thoughts and good thoughts alone. At this young age all the actions that you do should be guided by good fundamental principles. The good thoughts should be centered around fundamental principles like Honesty, Truth, Discipline, Respect for elders, Sincerity, Hardwork, Compassion to others, Selflessness.

If we throw a piece of stone in a tank or a pool of water, it will produce a succession of concentric waves travelling all around from the affected place. Have you seen this. Similarly when there is a thought emancipating from a person, it produces similar ripple effect. You can move the world through thought-force. Thought has great power.

When the teacher is teaching in class and one of think it is very interesting and start asking good questions and show lot of interest, it not only enthuses your friends and brings them interest in the subject, but also the teachers who are teaching and they start giving you extra information and the whole class become lively and positive. How do you like this? On the other hand if someone starts distracting the class negative atmosphere starts getting built.

When there is an exam or test, have the thought to get maximum marks in the test. This is positive thought. Everyone in the class can score centum. The thought that you alone get good marks or you get more marks than you friend is not so positive. Then there is no sharing of tips or helping of lessons with your friends. But the first thought build positive competition and enables everyone to excel in education.

When you are sitting for an exam and you don’t know the answers, your thought should be to repent that you haven’t studied well and try to study the next time. That builds your character to accept your action of less preparedness and the repercussion to face the scoldings from parents and teachers. This is positive. As you sow so you reap. You should get result for only what you deserve. There is no happiness in getting things for which you didn’t work hard. So build the thought to accept the results that are got due to the actions you perform.

You should speak sweet words. Your presence should make the people around you happy. Never be harsh to your friends or family.  When your thoughts are positive and good, your actions are straight forward, your face glows with radiance and your physical fitness is at its best. The positive and good thoughts not only can define your character, it actually defines your health. It makes you happy always and there is no tension.  All negative feeling like anger, hatred, jealousy etc can be driven by positive good and calm thoughts.

Slowly as you grow you should start developing good and positive thoughts about the people who enable you daily – your teachers, you parents, your brothers, sisters.  Now what do I mean by good thoughts for them. Think about it. You are so happy today here studying in this school because of your parents. Your mother and father do so much for you which you might not have given due importance. You take things for granted. Your clothes are washed, your food is cooked and put up in tiffen boxes, house is tidied, you get whatever you want if you ask your father. But have you offered to help your mom anytime? Did you ever think about how hard your father works, what kind of tensions he goes through in work daily, which he hides from you. If you develop a loving thought, a thought of compassion towards them, then you will obey your parents. You will not argue unnecessarily with them over petty things. Slowly you will start your thought process to make them happy and the best way to make them happy is to achieve something worthwhile through positive means and good means.

As you evolve and grow further, your thoughts also start evolving with you and you start thinking about your town, your state, your country and then the larger world. That’s when you want to bring transformation in the place around you. Then you become thought leaders who can transform your team, transform your workplace, transform your organization, transform your society, Transform the environment and may be some day transform the country and the world.
So you understood now clearly that positive thoughts can do wonders to you as well as around you. It can bring you wholesome success. The success that is not defined only my money or fame, but success which brings happiness, peace and celebration to not only you, but also brings happiness, peace to people who are related to you, around you and the entire place where you belong. That kind of success is possible only by positive and good thoughts.

This thought power cannot be achieved in one day. It is a regular process and there are ways to develop this this thought process and let me give you few principles you can follow to achieve this.

  •  First step is to develop concentration. And simple method to do this is prayer. The practice to keep the picture of your favorite deity and pray is to make sure concentrate on that picture atleast for few minutes. When you focus and concentrate you can channelize your thoughts for some time on a particular item. Slowly the same method can be applied to subjects you read or the games you play.  
  • The second thing you can try is non-cooperation. You may hear some people say that I have prayed and decided that I wont eat sugar for 48 days. This is one way to control thought process. You non cooperate and say you will not speak lies for so many days. Come what may. Slowly you will become a person who doesn’t speak lies.
  • Nip the bad thought when in bud. When the thought is in bud, it is easy to nip it off. When your parents discover that you lie, they may scold you it is to nip of the bad thought in bud. If you really care for your parents or for your own good take it positively and work to nip it, when it is pointed out by others. The people who point out your mistakes and yell at you are your well wishers. So respect them and hear to them and act as per their advice.
  • Be with people who have good and positive thoughts. Satsang meaning gell with people who give you those positive vibes.
  •    Read good books that teach you fundamental principles of discipline, honesty etc.
  •   Watch good things. Watch only good movies. The movies are made because it is somebodies living. Just as how your parents work in different companies to feed their families, so do the movie stars or the sports stars act and play. Do not lose your precious time always watching them.
  •  Meditation and Yoga are some methods through which you can tune the mind to think positively.
  • What you eat is what you are. Eat good Saatvic food. That plays a key role in what you think. Be careful about what you eat.
  •  Drive away from your mind all useless thoughts and rubbish thoughts. They hinder you from accumulating positive good thoughts.
  •  Put your good thoughts into action and make them your routine and slowly they become your habit and thus it becomes your destiny.

If you develop these kind of positive and good thoughts all through your life and lead a life based on fundamental principles of peace, truth, compassion, sincerity you will experience true happiness which not only makes you happy but all the people around you also happy. You will get  wealth and fame automatically as by products. Your success will be celebrated by the whole world. So children develop positive good thoughts and all the very best to become future thought leaders who can transform our country into a great place. All the very best.