I should know what I want to life, in order to achieve it. I myself do not know as of today, what is it that is most important to me and what is it that I want to achieve. I work, I have hubby, I have kids to take care of, I have parents to take care of, I have in-laws to take care of. Yes everyone has these things. But right from my younger days, I have been a very ambitious girl. I have dreamt many things and I would like to live my dreams. But now that I am engulfed in so many things, will it be possible to chase my dreams. Though I have the git and mental strength, I am physically very weak and I feel that the things happening around me in recent times, has kept me thinking and worried on what the future holds for me.
I should know my priorities, whether being in a job is enough, or being in the right job is required, or earning a high salary is important, or commanding a good position is critical or finally mental peace and happiness in the family is what all is about. Once I am able to come to a conclusion and strike a balance, things will settle. But that will not happen, unless I give up something. After all one cannot have the cake and eat it too!!!!!!!!!!!
I should know my priorities, whether being in a job is enough, or being in the right job is required, or earning a high salary is important, or commanding a good position is critical or finally mental peace and happiness in the family is what all is about. Once I am able to come to a conclusion and strike a balance, things will settle. But that will not happen, unless I give up something. After all one cannot have the cake and eat it too!!!!!!!!!!!
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I kind of understand your thoughts. For women around this age is a time when we have a full family with 2 kids , at work we almost come up to senior level... responsibilities increases at all levels.
Though I am not fully practicing it probably. To become an all rounder might be difficult but whatever your dreams are never give up . Life is long ..each day .. each minutes always offers us something. someday we can accomplish all our dreams . Until then all we can do is FOCUS . Focus on whatever we want and Try Try Try and Try. The result will come someday .
In Hindu tradition we believe that any human on earth will have to go through a series of troubles.Even Gods who reincarnate themselves as humans have to undergo these difficulties . Through these troubles we learn about different values of life . At end to attain Moksha we should know several values of life . Attaining Moksha also means that we would know "What we want". So the whole purpose of living this life itself is to understand the purpose of our existence.
Though dreams and accomplishing them is important the PATH that you take to accomplish them is also equally important .
Again theres something called karma. Karma is simply to do what you have been designated to do. Not very simple though .. right .
Try researching on karma , karmaphalam and Moksha . Theres lots we need to understand about what our ancestors have been trying to teach us.
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